What's your favourite item of clothing?
My grandmother’s clip on earrings (technically an accessory, but they still count I think!)
Can YOU believe it's not butter?
OMG YOU FOLLOW MY INSTAGRAM THANK YOU FOR ASKING.
I CAN’T BELIEVE. I JUST CAN’T.
Btw, thank you for being who you are ;)
How do you explain to people that you don't CHOOSE to be a certain gender on certain days, you just FEEL it? Someone asked me how i chose which gender do be on certain days and i didn't know how to answer :(
Mean man: So when did you choose to be genderqueer
Me: When did you choose to be a man?
Mean Man: WHAT? HUH? I DIDN’T!!!! WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
Me: Exactly.
Mean Man: PATRIARCHY PATRIARCHY PATRIARCHY!
Me:
what advice do You have for young trans and nonbinary people struggling with dysphoria? <3 thanks friend. stay alive.
THERAPY!!!! It is so good! I see my therapist regularly and it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. Not everyone can afford it, but there are often support groups with therapists leading them in your community if you can find one. Dysphoria is so hard, so if you’re struggling intensely, please please please reach out to friends who can give you hugs and snuggles and cookies. Also if you’re struggling with suicidal thoughts (which let’s be real that’s something that almost every genderqueer and trans person has struggled with) please reach out to a helpline where you can talk to somebody.
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
http://www.lookdifferent.org/the-t-word/get-help
You are so so loved, and so are all of your incredible trans/nonbinary friends. Love you!!!!
Anonymous
how are you today
I’M GONNA BE ON TV TOMORROW LOL HI MOM so I’m good and a bit too excited how are you?!
hey! i adore you a lot! i have to ask: what fashion advice do you have for street queers who don't have as much money or time as you?
Okay two things:
1) I def don’t have a lot of money for clothes, but instagram and red carpets can make any outfit look expensive!
2) Thrift stores are your BEST friend because you can experiment with your gender identity for cheap
3) I dress mostly like Jackie Kennedy, so I can get most of my clothes at thrift stores where old grandmas have gotten rid of them <3
4) Capitalism sucks, so who cares about looking like you’re rich!!!!
5) Let’s go shopping soon <3
Anonymous
Hi Jacob! I went to school with you and I always admired your confidence, empathy, and how eloquent you were. So proud of you, and know that you'll do great things! Keep strong. Keep speaking up. And I'll continue cheering for you (and learning more) from the sidelines.
BB!!!! Text me?
How do you keep so positive and keep all the haters away? What's the worst thing anyone ever said and how did u get over it?
I mean the other day I was walking down the street and some called yelled “F**king F*GG*T” at me across the street. And I kept walking and didn’t say anything to him because:
1) I don’t want to put myself at risk by confronting someone. Too many trans people are killed every year, and I know that could happen to me, and
2) I don’t have time for haters because I am a goddess and you are too
P.S. don’t smoke kiddos it’s bad for you but that GIF was too good.
WHY ARE YOU SUCH A BABE???????!!!!!!!!!!?!?!?!?!?!?!!!!
It took a really long time to learn how to do my lipstick this well 😘
