Anonymous
asked:
The guy I was seeing told me hes gender fluid. Which is fine but doesnt work for me (I have no romantic or sexual interest in women). So I ended things bc it wasnt fair to them if I couldnt commit but I feel so shitty. Like I know it was what was best but I feel like I was made into the bad guy just bc I didn't know. I know I can't demand someone to be upfront about something so personal but I'm also upset bc I never wanted this to happen. Am I in the wrong? What should I be feeling?
Gender identity can be a very difficult subject. Working on my new show Suspect with my gender fluid / non gender binary co-host iO Tillet-Wright was a crazy learning experience for me. We also help a lot of people on the show who are dealing with this sort of situation, so it might help you to tun in and see how we dealt with it. So long as you are honest and true to you, you are always doing the right thing.